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penelope---] - November 3rd, 2010 1:39 AM

my baby girl gets whatever she wants from her grandparents and aunties and uncles. i am afraid it will make her spoiled and most people say it should be controlled earlier to avoid trouble handling it in the future. what do you think about this?


madz0814 - November 3rd, 2010 2:45 AM

it would really be a problem if you just tolerate it. there is nothing wrong to provide almost everything for the child but the child should understand that there are things in the future maybe that she can't have. you should be careful with how you explain it to your child.


denise - November 3rd, 2010 8:27 AM

just observe first, if she seems not asking for it and is just waiting to give it to her, then there is nothing to be worry of. in case you noticed she screams or cries over a thing she likes and can't be given to her, the possibility is there that she might turned into a brat.


raddah - November 3rd, 2010 8:38 AM

it's ok to be spoiled at times because she's just a toddler but if she gets a bit of excited all the time with the things she received, i think you need to discipline her a bit.


ladymom - November 3rd, 2010 8:11 PM

first, it is not your daughter's fault why she has these stuffs. you would want to tell her aunts and uncles, grandma and grandpa as well to certainly not over feeding her with the excitement emotion of having so much of what she wants.


heartofgold - November 3rd, 2010 10:33 PM

yeah it is not the child's fault if he/she has become a brat. it is the parents and other people's treatment that maybe made them spoiled and sometimes it is not being taken into consideration and just blame the child for being that way.


rAqUeL - November 4th, 2010 9:11 PM

during my childhood, i was the only child and a favorite of my grandparents. i was given almost everything and my mother was worried that i might get spoiled but i was not, i think it will depend on the child too. there is a part of me that puts limitations on certain things.


penelope---] - November 7th, 2010 10:01 PM

at first she does not really cry for certain things she wants to have but lately she does cry as i have observed. this is a bad sign and i can't calm her no matter what i do.


rovie - November 8th, 2010 6:07 AM

spoiled brat kids, we can't avoid it especially when people around them are just too certain with giving them something they enjoy the most. just keep an eye to your daughter, try to analyze if it gets any worst, you should do something to avoid it at early times.


JennyLou - November 11th, 2010 7:59 PM

This is something we should be careful with. We should not take for granted the possibility of our child to become spoiled because in the end we are the ones who might suffer because of it.


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