Is your child like this since young? As in cannot sit still during lunch or dinner?
I feel that children of this age are a rebellious lot. Sometimes they will purposely ignore your questions or commands. They are very smart. They know who they can bully. As for not speaking properly, which area are you referring to? Stammer or talk too slowly?
Do you spend a lot of time with your child? Is he trying to get your attention by being naughty? Is he the only child?
Sometimes we get very angry when our child do not follow our instructions. We get upset when they do not behave like the rest. A 3 yr old child is trying to exercise his independence. Show his temper, cry for no reason, huge temper etc...
If you are really worried, do bring him to see a PD.
I have a 2.5 yr old boy. He is forever testing our patience. He will never sit quietly with my parents or Hubby. But with me, he can sit quietly playing or eating. He is selective. He will bully my parents but not with me or Hubby.
Don't worry too much. If indeed something is not right, then early intervention is the solution. Take care!
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