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JONROSE - November 1st, 2010 6:02 AM

my son at six needs to catch up a lot of things in school. he seems to be always out of the crowd, having so much spending time alone during breaks and keeping up things to himself. i have been a busy working mom and half of my spare time is to watch over my little boy to update his progress in school. i am bit of worried now, his teacher told me how he does in school and yet i don't want to force him mingling around when he is not in the mood... :( what to do? it seems like my frustration with this problem does nothing good to my child at all.

danyele - November 1st, 2010 6:08 AM

we parents think that this is beyond the normal type of kids but there are really some kids who wants to be on their own. we can help them out simply by letting them feel that nothing is bad when mingling with others and participating in school activities as much as they wanted to.

meaghan - November 1st, 2010 6:12 AM

really is so hard to develop a child's performance in school and with others especially when a parent is just too busy to handle both being a mom and her career.

sinclair - November 1st, 2010 6:22 AM

are you open to the option of getting a babysitter? someone that can watch over him and at the same time teach him about the lessons in his school, maybe that would help.

jewell frost - November 1st, 2010 6:31 AM

just curious if you work during the weekends. i suggest you spare like 3-5 hrs with him and know everything about his activities in school and what he did.

Nora - November 1st, 2010 7:30 AM

try to talk to him alone and heart to heart. maybe he really wants to open up when you both are left alone.

Amanda - November 1st, 2010 7:40 AM

sometimes kids tend to just keep things they can't tell and that you should make an extra effort to reach out to them.

sybil_00 - November 1st, 2010 7:50 AM

maybe you go out so seldom... i think you need to arrange an outing, a family bonding or so, where you can observe his behavior in that entire day. from there you can see how he really is behaving towards others and to you.

Zaldy - November 2nd, 2010 5:38 AM

did you try out counseling with your son? i know this will not help you 100% but surely there will be changes that will take place.

audrey - November 8th, 2010 6:12 AM

i don't know why children nowadays are very much reluctant with other kids or communicating with their teachers and other people. maybe because of how our lifestyle has change a lot.

laurent - November 8th, 2010 6:51 AM

does he has siblings, a bro younger or older? if he does, maybe try to see to it that is not being bullied. or asked him if he got bullied in school.

MITCHIE - November 9th, 2010 6:20 AM

show him you care by asking him the things that you don't know about him. treat him goodies every now and then.

weesha - November 10th, 2010 7:15 PM

just don't pressure him to tell you about what was going on. take it step by step... learn that kids easily get irritated and aloof.

shareen - November 10th, 2010 7:16 PM

if you think he can't cope up with the other kids, then you should also try to talk to the teacher about your son's behavior and that should be need to address to avoid conflicts with the other kids.

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