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stacey - November 14th, 2010 12:03 AM

it was to my dismay when i lost my almost first baby after being married for a year and i could not believe it didn't went through. i have been so depressed at times that i don't want to go out anymore and i feel so jealous with my colleagues who are now having a complete happy family. just recently, my husband told me he wanted to have a baby and i agreed what's supposed to be my personal decision too. it's almost for 3 years now since we tried but nothing happens and i have come to the point where i feel so tired of trying and hoping to have one, literally i am now so stressed out.

baby_talk - November 14th, 2010 12:06 AM

there are so many cases like yours where couples happened to loss a child and trying for several years. 3 years is quite a number now to consider that you don't still have a child but some are considering up to five years. in case you cannot wait for another year to come, try to consult the doctor and do not be afraid because it is much more easier for you if you consult your situation rather than waiting for nothing.

yellowribbon - November 14th, 2010 1:00 AM

sorry to hear that. i can't really say that everything will be fine, just hang in there and don't lose hope. be thankful for the opportunity of getting pregnant and continue praying for a successful one.

Gracie - November 14th, 2010 5:39 AM

maybe you are just being too excited to deal with the situation and to have a baby as well. just relax and take it easy although it's not really that easy but patience is the key.

barbara - November 14th, 2010 5:41 AM

ever think that there might be some factors why you can no longer conceive at the moment? maybe you are just stressed out or busy with some other things? try to concentrate yourself in trying and if you are working too hard maybe you can lay-low a bit.

chelsea - November 14th, 2010 6:02 AM

maybe you are just so pressured with the situation you are in and maybe you can just try to relax first and get some time to not pressure yourself in trying to conceive.

marionette - November 14th, 2010 6:16 AM

just consult your condition if trying is no longer helping you to have a baby. you should know what to do if you really are interested and maybe the doctor may suggest or tell you what to do or give you prescriptions that will help you out.

therese26 - November 14th, 2010 6:24 AM

did you consider some other alternatives like artificial insemination? i know it's odd a bit for parents to be but i am kind of looking at the prospective part of the situation you are in and i guess we are open now to the possibilities about those alternatives.

Divine - November 14th, 2010 6:41 AM

some are actually having those herbal medicines and some other doctor's prescribed to handle this kind of situation. are you open on those?

sheila - November 14th, 2010 7:06 AM

you should try to eat healthy and balance diet, workout some time and give yourself the time to feel the zen to be able to condition yourself in conceiving.

pawnee - November 14th, 2010 9:08 AM

just don't lose hope, it's still early to say that you may no longer conceive but like any other mothers here who commented on your thread, try to ask a professional's advice on this matter.

sachi_leigh - November 14th, 2010 9:12 AM

sometimes trying to much makes things more complicated because it will only stressed you out. give a little more time and space for yourself to be able to meditate and relax before the next try.

leighann - November 14th, 2010 9:15 AM

it is more appropriate to ask a doctor and consult it as early as possible so you can be aware of what to do. this will also make conceiving more simpler for your and for your husband.

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