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i presumed that you made friends with his kids while you were dating, well i also assumed that you knew! lol! anyways if you befriended them before you got married then you wont have any bug problem, of course its not easy but since you don't have kids im sure your going to love them as much you would love yours! |
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What is more important than become a "step-mother" is to become their friend. Just make them feel that your presence does not mean, lesser time with their dad but rather an addition to the people who will care and watch over them. |
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How old are the kids? If they are still young, then it'll probably be easier for you to enter their lives, but if they are older then you'd have to make them feel your sincerity and prove to them your love for their dad and to them as well. |
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yeah its easier if they are still young, about 4 or 5, but make sure that you get into their good side cause if kids dislikes you then it will take a lot of time before you can go back to their good side |