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billie-yanny - October 24th, 2010 10:55 PM

me and my husband sleep in separate bedrooms. it all started because our only child henry wants to sleep with me, so i sleep in his room for several months until secondary school that he decided to sleep alone. so i returned to our room but it felt uncomfortable so i decided to divide the room into two for which my husband also agreed. it did not matter to us until now that it sink into me. i feel like we are not couples anymore and we are living together for the sake of being a family. i don't know how to approach him with this concern because it seems like he is not affected with it.


PaMeLa32 - October 25th, 2010 1:13 AM

This sounds bad. You should have dealt with it earlier. You can maybe start with some questions like, do you want to go out sometime? Ask him out to bring back the spark and hopefully raise the topic about sleeping back together in one room.


leslie - October 25th, 2010 3:08 PM

it should be your "move" to tell him that it isn't healthy for a family where parents are sleeping separately. i mean come to think of it with how your kid would think about your status. don't even think twice, approach him, just like you slept with your kid before, you will get used to it again to sleep with him, bring back the spark! :)


WONDERmom - October 25th, 2010 9:36 PM

Quite a situation for you. You should make a move now before it is too late. I think there is nothing wrong if you just ask him directly because you are a couple and there is nothing to be afraid of.


billie-yanny - October 27th, 2010 9:26 PM

you all have a point. i should not think of the negative side, i mean there is no harm in trying and we are a couple and should follow or do what normal couples should do. i will open it up to him and hopefully he will get the point without any hassle. thanks.


margarette - October 28th, 2010 2:01 AM

that sounds sad :(
i mean i don't blame you for that result you had right now with not sleeping with your hubby. there are just things that is so hard to bring it back but don't lose hope just take it one step a time.


HermioneFall - November 2nd, 2010 12:10 AM

I can't handle such situation. It would be a big argument once my husband is not sleeping beside me. Some say that as time passes by couples tend to lose the spark in their marriage and would result to this situation. I don't believe that it can't be avoided. If couples will do their best to keep it burning then the marriage will always be like the first time.


TaffyMarie - November 7th, 2010 10:23 PM

At least you still love if other, right? The basis in a relationship is not necessarily your physical set up but the way you treat each other. Some couples don't even live together but they are still happily married.


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