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universe - October 21st, 2010 11:55 PM

facing the wall is another kind of time out that i do apply to discipline my child. he just stays at a corner standing still facing the wall and i think it works all the time. the punishment is done for different faults. it works in the sense that he does not repeat the same fault.


kelly---sting - October 24th, 2010 11:27 PM

how does that work? i mean just facing the wall is for me not a time out but a punishment because you mentioned more on the faults that your child did. Time out for me is like a break for the child, not necessarily because a fault was done but he/she is like doing something excessively and needs to have a break from it first.


f e m m i e - October 25th, 2010 9:05 PM

we have different perception of time outs because for me time out are somewhat the same as punishment for the child. although i still agree with you kelly-sting that it is also a break from something excessively done. the point is the child will have in mind that this time out is done for a certain purpose that he/she has to learn.


vivian - October 27th, 2010 1:31 AM

i was kind of disturb with the way you discipline your son. i know it's effective but i think there are some other options you may want to try other than letting him face the wall. you can make him sit in one corner instead and not to let him get off until you tell him so.


**alexa** - October 27th, 2010 11:09 PM

facing the wall is kind of unproductive time out for me. in my own opinion, time outs should be like teaching the child to do better, to change the wrong doings he has done. with just facing the wall, i think there is nothing that he can learn from it and might affect the child's mental development.


georgia-t - October 30th, 2010 1:41 AM

i am not comfortable with the idea of disciplining a child facing on wall... but we have our different ways in doing so and if you think that makes a child learn from him mistakes, then why not.


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