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Kim1Dash2 - February 7th, 2011 1:24 PM

Divergences and criticisms are normal in any relationship, whether it's between a mom and dad, or between two nations or peoples. All too often, though, they get out of hand, leading to hurt feelings, anger, and heavy out. The best chance of resolving a quarrel is to protect yourself, state your needs, range the hand of reconciliation and be compassionate. Even if you just do them yourself. If your partner participates, all the better! But waiting for the other person to do the right thing only leads to jam - so your best bet is to take steps yourself, unilaterally if necessary, because that is the best way to evoke good behavior from the other person, take his issues with you off the table, and let you take your stand on the high moral ground.


Nicole.Smith - February 7th, 2011 3:57 PM

Communication is still the #1 key! Forgive and live for the future then we must learn from the past.


IlovemyGirl - February 8th, 2011 2:52 AM

Totally agree with Nicole. You must also be a good listener though. Try to sort things out before it goes out of hand


GlassFatty - February 9th, 2011 4:48 AM

Youre right Nicole, Communication is very helpful to resolve a problem.

heres the other way to resolve quarrels :

To Understand and To Listen.


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