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margery - November 14th, 2010 1:25 PM

i have been very understanding with whatever problems that comes my way. lately, it has been disturbing to think about my husband who always comes late at night and going to work some time over the weekends. i think he is cheating on me...


Rusellin - November 14th, 2010 1:27 PM

i you think your husband is cheating and you can't keep it to yourself anymore, you might consider confronting him while it's too early to tell.


Dianne - November 14th, 2010 1:32 PM

the hardest part of being a wife is when your husband's cheating on you, it's purely disgusting!


raddah - November 14th, 2010 1:39 PM

go confront him, straight to his face! nothing is there left if he did it, he's just wasting your time.


latisha.32 - November 14th, 2010 1:43 PM

you might consult someone who is at expert on this matter. do not make any move when unsure.


tara - November 14th, 2010 1:49 PM

when your husband is cheating on you, this only means more stressful than adding up all the responsibility in the world you could ever imagine.


audrey - November 14th, 2010 1:58 PM

follow your instincts in which women are really good at. don't try the second guess, if you guess it first then try to sort it out.


Vivienne - November 14th, 2010 2:05 PM

oh that's not a good news at all... well, it's the inevitable truth for some men who thinks cheating make them look more masculine, how could you guys! :((


BLESSY - November 14th, 2010 2:10 PM

is the sudden change of his working routine comes up with the sudden change of his attitude towards you as well? why don't you ask him first what's up with working during weekends.


emily - November 14th, 2010 2:12 PM

you could not assume that he is really cheating on you unless proven by all means. it would be unfair for him if you would not ask him and he could eventually explain his side.


MITCHIE - November 14th, 2010 2:17 PM

for the sake of your kids, try to talk him in civil. go ahead and don't waste your time guessing.


mathissa - November 14th, 2010 2:29 PM

if you can't hold back your anger while trying to talk to him, you might as well write him a letter instead. sometimes women become very emotional and we can't just hold back our emotions with this kind of situation.


shareen - November 14th, 2010 2:33 PM

sometimes we need to just keep our silence for the sake of our kids and yet this is not a good idea at all. it will only worsen the case and you guys will only learn to hate each other as time goes by.


JUNIPER - November 14th, 2010 2:35 PM

take the first step, ask him, it is your right to know as his wife. if he tries not to talk about it, then it's time for you to figure it out.


georgia-t - November 14th, 2010 2:39 PM

i had that kind of story like yours before. at first it was so uneasy to ask him but i did it through an email so i can fully expressed myself to whatever i want to tell and ask him. the good part is that he actually isn't cheating on me. it was just a phase of our married life where we felt like it's getting boring since we don't communicate as much as often due to our busy scheds.


karrahmae - November 14th, 2010 9:17 PM

i've been through that situation before but only until the "i guess" stage. it was obvious and i did not want to confirm it because it was so hard to accept. to be honest i don't now if he cheats, it's not the same as before anymore.


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