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**alexa** - October 13th, 2010 10:05 PM

hey, just wondered if you have some issues with your husbands. in my case, my husband is younger that me and i have a hard time dealing with him. he seem so happy go lucky with his life that he can't even provide for his family. we've been together for 4 years now and nothing's changed. just want to get this out of my chest.

LucyFable - October 14th, 2010 9:26 PM

Have you ever talked about it and find a solution to solve it? I do believe that everything can be settled when talked over. You should try it and be able to understand both sides.

i-r-i-s-h - October 15th, 2010 3:12 AM

that is a big stress for mothers. husbands should not add up to the worries and problems of mothers. they should support each other instead.

tina - October 16th, 2010 8:27 PM

if you are exhausted enough and is tired to deal with your husband, i guess you need marriage counseling to help you out how to work your relationship with regards to your age gaps. it is important that he understands the life he has today and to know where he should take responsibility now that you guys already have a child.

**alexa** - October 17th, 2010 8:51 PM

thanks for the pieces of advice mothers.

tina: i already considered marriage counseling and i don't think it will change the way he acts and it would only mean a waste of time and money. he is that insensitive.

Tanya - October 22nd, 2010 12:39 AM

you should point that problem directly to him. he can't be too relax with what you guys are having at the moment especially if you guys already have kids. if nothing happens with your effort, try to also consult your in-laws about his behaviors.

Umahmah - October 23rd, 2010 1:23 AM

Sometimes it takes the two of you to solve it. Try to examine yourself, maybe there is also something wrong that he acts that way. Like for me, I don't know how to cook and I've made some effort to correct it.

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