New to the forum? Sign Up Here! Already a member? Please login below.

Forgot your password? Need Help?  
violet blue - April 12th, 2011 2:47 AM

we ave tried very hard to get a baby, we end up surrogating, awkward situation.... do i need to invite the surrogate mother?

Quilter - April 12th, 2011 3:26 AM

IMO, you don't. In the end its not her baby anyway.

2 cents - April 13th, 2011 9:51 AM

you can most definitely invite her, she would definitely say no...
you might be the mother but since you opted for surrogacy there should be a level of maturity in you.

Caelia - April 15th, 2011 12:13 AM

what if she say yes? wouldn't that be awkward? it should be your party... so I guess you give her a thank you note?

ilovedoriangray - April 16th, 2011 11:09 AM

I vote: don't invite her. chances are she wont know anybody there. I mean its going to be your baby ergo your friends are going to be invited. It does not make sense to have a baby shower and then invite the surrogate's friends...what purpose would that serve?

eLeOnOr - April 20th, 2011 2:38 AM

She would be the odd man out. It would be better not to invite her. But if you know the surrogate. Example if she is a friend who volunteered and also knows your other friends then it would be OK.


Please login or register to post on this thread.